Diaries of a Mother

Dear Diary, I never thought I’d be writing a blog post about postpartum hair loss, but here I am — almost six months into motherhood and trying to navigate all the changes that come with it. From sleepless nights and endless feeding sessions to the unexpected challenge of watching my hair shed by the handful. Oh, the things no one tells you about becoming a mum! Let me start from the beginning. The Moment I Realised Something Was Different A couple of months after my little one was born, I started noticing something odd. My hair, which had been thick and glossy throughout my pregnancy (thanks, pregnancy hormones!), suddenly began thinning. At first, I thought it was just the stress of new motherhood. But as the days went on, the shedding became more noticeable. Every time I ran my fingers through my hair, clumps of it came out. And don’t even get me started on the hair all over the bathroom floor, my pillow, and worst of all — my baby’s little hands. It felt like I was losing a part of myself, something I never thought would be affected by motherhood. After all, you prepare for so many changes when you’re pregnant, but no one warns you about the emotional toll of postpartum hair loss. The Struggle Was Real (But So Is the Solution) I tried to be patient and remind myself that this was all part of the process. But the shedding didn’t seem to stop. It was more than just a few stray hairs; it felt like I was losing a significant amount of volume. Honestly, I started to feel a little insecure. I was already adjusting to so many changes, and my hair thinning made me feel like I wasn’t quite myself anymore. But then, after a few more weeks of feeling frustrated, I remembered something I’d read online: Postpartum hair loss is temporary. That was a huge relief! It didn’t have to be forever. The hormones that caused the change were starting to stabilise, and I just had to be patient. But patience didn’t mean I had to do nothing. I started looking for something to help boost my hair growth and restore some of the confidence I was missing. That’s when I found Elevana Hair Growth Activator. How Elevana Helped Me Take Control I’m all about natural, effective products that support my body through its changes, especially while I’m breastfeeding. Elevana’s Hair Growth Activator was exactly what I needed. It’s designed specifically for postpartum hair loss, which made me feel like I wasn’t alone in this. The formula is packed with active ingredients like biotin and rosemary oil, which are known to nourish the scalp and support healthy hair regrowth — and that was exactly what my hair needed. I decided to give it a try. Every night before bed, I started massaging the Hair Growth Activator into my scalp. The product felt lightweight and soothing, with no heavy or greasy residue. And I loved that it was something I could add into my routine without feeling overwhelmed — because, let’s face it, when you’re a new mom, simplicity is key. The Results? A Real Confidence Boost After about 4 weeks of using the Hair Growth Activator, I began to notice a real difference. My hair wasn’t falling out in the same quantities anymore, and I started to see little baby hairs sprouting along my hairline. It was subtle at first, but over time, I could tell my hair was slowly recovering. Not only was my hair shedding less, but it also felt stronger and healthier overall. I could finally see that light at the end of the tunnel — postpartum hair loss doesn’t have to last forever! Even better? The Elevana Hair Growth Activator was helping me regain some of the volume and thickness I had before pregnancy. I was able to style my hair without feeling like I was missing chunks. For the first time in months, I looked in the mirror and felt like my old self again — the mama with thick, beautiful hair that I thought I’d lost forever. A Word of Advice from One Mama to Another If you're going through postpartum hair loss like I was, I want you to know you’re not alone. It’s such a common part of the journey, but it doesn’t define you. You’re still beautiful, and your body is doing amazing things — even when it feels like it’s changing in ways you weren’t expecting. If you’re looking for something to help boost your hair growth and encourage healthier, fuller hair, I wholeheartedly recommend Elevana Hair Growth Activator. It’s been a total game-changer for me, and I feel so much more confident as I navigate this new chapter of motherhood. It’s not a quick fix, but with time, consistency, and a little bit of patience, you’ll start to see those baby hairs grow in and that familiar volume return. You’ve got this, mama — and your hair will too! With love and luscious locks,A Mama Who’s Still Learning to Love Her Hair

Dear Diary,Today was one of those days where I’m just done.The kind of day where it feels like no matter how much I love my family, I’m stuck in this endless loop—wiping bums, chasing after toys, and somehow always being the one on call.Don’t get me wrong—my husband is superb. Truly, I couldn’t ask for more. He helps out, he’s amazing with the kids, but here’s the thing: I’m still the default parent. The one the kids always run to, the one they want when they’re upset, hungry, or just bored. It’s like they have a radar for me, even when I try to sneak five minutes of peace.And it’s exhausting.The kind of tired that seeps into your bones, where it’s not just physical but emotional too. I mean, how many times can one person hear “Mum, Mum, Mum!” before they lose their mind, right?It’s beautiful, it’s heartwarming... and it’s so overwhelming. No matter how much my husband does (and he does a lot), the kids just want me. And some days, I feel like there’s nothing left to give.That’s where the loneliness kicks in—the kind no one talks about.You’re surrounded by love, but also completely alone in the responsibility. It’s like the weight of being the default parent is something only another mum could understand.I know I’m not the only one who feels this way, but in the moment, it can feel so isolating. Like I’m giving every piece of myself to everyone else and there’s nothing left for me.And that’s when I realised—I need other mums. Mums who get it, who understand what it’s like to be the go-to for everything, all the time. Someone who can say, “Me too,” and make me feel just a little less alone.That’s what we’re missing—the mum tribe. The women who lift each other up when it feels like the whole world is sitting on our shoulders. I love my family, but some days, I need to feel seen, to be understood without having to explain. I need another mum who knows exactly what it’s like to be the one they call on, no matter how incredible your support team is.So here’s to finding that connection.Because as mums, we don’t have to do this alone. Together, we rise. And maybe, just maybe, we’ll finally get a moment to ourselves too.Love, The Default Parent Who Needs a Break

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