Let’s talk about the never-ending stream of opinions that comes with motherhood, shall we? 
Whether it's that lady at the supermarket judging your toddler’s snack choices or your well-meaning aunty giving “advice” on how to get your baby to sleep (thanks, but no thanks, Aunty Sue), there’s always someone who thinks they know better. And as mums, we know that everyone has something to say, but here’s the kicker: none of it matters. 
The Myth of Perfection
Before you became a mum, you probably had this idea of what motherhood would look like. Maybe you pictured a perfectly clean house, a well-dressed baby, and days filled with fun and laughter. Flash forward to reality, and now you're proud if you get through the day with only one toddler tantrum, a load of laundry half done, and a snack that didn’t come from a packet.
But guess what? That’s more than enough! Yet, no matter how well you’re doing, someone will always feel the need to throw their two cents in. “Shouldn’t she be eating more vegetables?” “Are you still breastfeeding?” “You’re letting him play with that?” You know the drill. It’s like motherhood comes with an open invitation for the world to comment on your every move. Spoiler alert: it doesn't.
The Real Power Move: Not Caring
Here’s the thing, mama — the real power move is teaching your kids (and reminding yourself!) that what others think is not your problem. Seriously, let that sink in. People will always have opinions, but you don’t have to live by them. Whether you're breastfeeding, bottle-feeding, co-sleeping, or sleep-training, as long as you’re doing what’s best for your family, you’re doing it right. Kids pick up on everything — the good, the bad, and the messy.
When they see you living confidently, unapologetically, and true to yourself, they learn to do the same. Teach them that the loudest voice they should listen to is their own, and that being different, quirky, or a little “weird” is exactly what makes them awesome.
Survival Tip: Create Your Own Mum Bubble
The best way to handle all those unsolicited opinions? Create your own mum bubble. It’s a judgement-free zone where you, your little ones, and your chaos reign supreme. Fill it with people who get it — your fellow mums who laugh at the same mum fails and know how hard you’re smashing it every single day. These are the women who won’t bat an eye if your kid eats ice cream for breakfast or runs around in their PJs at noon (we’ve all been there, right?). The key to survival is knowing that your bubble is your safe space, and the noise outside it? That’s just background chatter. And background chatter has nothing on the powerhouse you are.
The Takeaway: You’re Smashing It, Mama
If you’re living your truth — raising happy, healthy kids while keeping your sanity somewhat intact — you’re absolutely smashing it. Opinions are just that: opinions. And they’ve got nothing to do with your unique journey through motherhood. So, let them judge. Let them say whatever they want. Because at the end of the day, you’re doing exactly what you’re meant to — raising little legends and teaching them to be fearless, happy, and 100% true to themselves.
Keep going, mama, you’ve got this.
Bonus Tip for Dealing with the Noise
When the opinions start rolling in and you feel your eye twitching, just repeat this in your head: "Not today, Karen. Not today." Then go on with your day, because you’re a queen and no one can take that from you.
Whether it's that lady at the supermarket judging your toddler’s snack choices or your well-meaning aunty giving “advice” on how to get your baby to sleep (thanks, but no thanks, Aunty Sue), there’s always someone who thinks they know better. And as mums, we know that everyone has something to say, but here’s the kicker: none of it matters. The Myth of Perfection
Before you became a mum, you probably had this idea of what motherhood would look like. Maybe you pictured a perfectly clean house, a well-dressed baby, and days filled with fun and laughter. Flash forward to reality, and now you're proud if you get through the day with only one toddler tantrum, a load of laundry half done, and a snack that didn’t come from a packet.
But guess what? That’s more than enough! Yet, no matter how well you’re doing, someone will always feel the need to throw their two cents in. “Shouldn’t she be eating more vegetables?” “Are you still breastfeeding?” “You’re letting him play with that?” You know the drill. It’s like motherhood comes with an open invitation for the world to comment on your every move. Spoiler alert: it doesn't.The Real Power Move: Not Caring
Here’s the thing, mama — the real power move is teaching your kids (and reminding yourself!) that what others think is not your problem. Seriously, let that sink in. People will always have opinions, but you don’t have to live by them. Whether you're breastfeeding, bottle-feeding, co-sleeping, or sleep-training, as long as you’re doing what’s best for your family, you’re doing it right. Kids pick up on everything — the good, the bad, and the messy.
When they see you living confidently, unapologetically, and true to yourself, they learn to do the same. Teach them that the loudest voice they should listen to is their own, and that being different, quirky, or a little “weird” is exactly what makes them awesome.
Survival Tip: Create Your Own Mum Bubble
The best way to handle all those unsolicited opinions? Create your own mum bubble. It’s a judgement-free zone where you, your little ones, and your chaos reign supreme. Fill it with people who get it — your fellow mums who laugh at the same mum fails and know how hard you’re smashing it every single day. These are the women who won’t bat an eye if your kid eats ice cream for breakfast or runs around in their PJs at noon (we’ve all been there, right?). The key to survival is knowing that your bubble is your safe space, and the noise outside it? That’s just background chatter. And background chatter has nothing on the powerhouse you are.
The Takeaway: You’re Smashing It, Mama
If you’re living your truth — raising happy, healthy kids while keeping your sanity somewhat intact — you’re absolutely smashing it. Opinions are just that: opinions. And they’ve got nothing to do with your unique journey through motherhood. So, let them judge. Let them say whatever they want. Because at the end of the day, you’re doing exactly what you’re meant to — raising little legends and teaching them to be fearless, happy, and 100% true to themselves.
Keep going, mama, you’ve got this.
Bonus Tip for Dealing with the Noise
When the opinions start rolling in and you feel your eye twitching, just repeat this in your head: "Not today, Karen. Not today." Then go on with your day, because you’re a queen and no one can take that from you.
